I am back to life now, after a time off from work. Christmas was really rather disappointing this year. I always build up Christmas but it rarely disappoints to this extent. I was glad for time off, glad to be able to see my family, glad to spend Christmas with friends instead of alone. It seems like the magic of Christmas is gone. I don't know if I should just accept the fact it will be this way the next few years until I establish myself in one way or another. Establish meaning where I can be closer to family to enjoy more Christmas festivities, get married and start my own traditions...I don't know.
I did enjoy, as always, the family hang out time. It is always refreshing and good to be with family, even though people are different and things change. There is always familiarity in family. One of my favorite times was New Years Eve and Day hanging out with my sister, my cousin, and his wife. Although my sister and cousin's wife were sick, we made and enjoyed breakfast, played Wii, laid on the couch, talked, laughed, played with the dog. It was just nice to hang out and be comfortable with family. Its like what I do by myself, so it was nice to be with people.
Well, a year ago I was beginning my last semester of school. I did not think I could finish school and I could not see beyond school. Now I am graduated, working, learning, working.
So, for 2009, rule number 2 is: Adapt. React. Re-adapt. Act.